I have been in the "people business" for years. As a school teacher, and later, as a pastor, I have seen a lot. A. lot. There is something that seems to be true for much all of us humans. We are all insecure about something. Many can hide it well, and some, through the years have learned to be more accepting of faults and failures. Still, there is often that little, nagging thought in the back of our minds... Am I good enough? What if I can't do this?
A lot of the way we view ourselves in life depends on the kind of childhood we had. I am a parent, but not a perfect parent. My girls are grown now, and I think they're wonderful, but I know I made mistakes. I know I missed things. I know there were times when I was not patient enough, didn't support them enough, or, maybe helped TOO much. Sometimes I was too busy to see when they needed me. Sometimes I was not fair. Sometimes I was tired and disciplined in anger. I regret those things. But I loved them. Oh, how I love them! I know they would tell you they never, ever doubted they were cherished. I think that probably covered a multitude of my parenting sins! 
There is nothing more important in a child's life than knowing, without a doubt, that they are loved. Dr. Kay Kuzma, in her book A Hug, a Kiss, and a Kick in the Pants, writes that all of us have a "love tank," and we need to have it filled up often. Children are more apt to be behavior problems when they don't feel loved and secure. They figure negative attention is better than NO attention! They want someone to notice. They want someone to care. We cannot function properly without love. When the love tank is empty, we are not whole.
Now, I am not talking about the ooey-gooey, permissive, fickle, lustful love as portrayed on the big screen!
I am talking about a faithful, caring, powerful, genuine, balanced, constant kind of love. I am talking about love that shows itself in actions and truth; a love that can be depended on. A love that protects. A love that is sacrificial, secure and pure. Have you ever been loved with that kind of love?
There is only One who loves like that. God. (1John 4:8 NIV) "Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love."
God encourages us to love one another. The Bible tells husbands to love their wives. We are told to speak the truth in love. God loved us so much He sacrificed His own Son so that our relationship with Him could be restored. We were created for LOVE, to give it and receive it.
If you want some toast, you put your bread in the toaster and push the lever down. Put, if that toaster is not plugged in, it is not going to function correctly. I believe it is sort of like that with you and me. If we are not "plugged in" to God's love, there is no way we are going to be able to function the way we were created to function.
God's love is so healing-- so freeing! I can only say that it filled up the empty place in my heart. It empowered me to get over my insecurities and faults. His love is incredible! His love set me free! His love never fails.
(Psalm 31:7 NIV) I will be glad and rejoice in Your love, for You saw my affliction and knew the anguish of my soul.
God loves us. Believe it. Some have built a wall around their hearts to protect them from ever being hurt again. You have become cynical and hard. You trust no one. I understand that. It hurts to be hurt. But, I promise you this -- if you will give God a chance to love you -- if you will honestly open up your heart and let Him in, He will heal you. He will love you just because that is what He is like. You don't have to earn it. You don't have to be "good enough," you just have to let Him love you. You were MADE to be loved.
Let Him in. I dare you. 

You know what's still missing? A lot of people went through the first stages of renovation, but they have not continued with the process. You see, along with that heart change, we also need our minds to be transformed.
If you have been a Christian for 10 years, but have not changed how you live, something is wrong. 




Sometimes I feel like I HAVE to have some Chunky Monkey ice cream! I don't even care that a pint costs around ten bucks here in Denmark!
When I was pregnant with my first child, I think I ate a tomato sandwich on a toasted English muffin every single day! That is what I craved! Sadly, with my second, it was Oreos! 














We need to have a loving, humble heart when we come before God. He has forgiven us much. Well, He has me!
I think God thoroughly enjoyed it! Myself, not so much! I just wanted to hear AMEN, so I could turn out the light and go to bed myself! As much as I would have liked to, I never, ever told them to hurry it along. God always has time to listen to His kids, even when mommies are tired and nodding off on their knees!
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